In the last blog we spoke about who it is that teaches our kids about money. In this post we’d like to delve a little deeper into that topic, because understanding our money mindset is such an important part of changing it.

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Our intention is to build an understanding of why most of us have settled into the role of being a “worker” rather than following a more entrepreneurial path. You will also learn a little more about what we are endeavouring to achieve as a family, and why developing a healthier money mindset for kids matters so much to us.

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Money Mindset for Kids: Moving Beyond Earn, Spend and Borrow

Our kids, like all kids, want to have their own money so that they can have a little independence and buy the things that they want. In our family, our children sometimes receive money when it is their birthday and they also get a little pocket money.

Kaitlin, our eldest, has a part-time job working at a local brewery serving lunches and helping in the kitchen. She works hard and it pays pretty well. However, to take on a job, she loses some of her weekends and time to do school work and have a social life. She also commits time to regular babysitting work for some of the families in the area.

What Is a Money Mindset?

At present, the money mindset of our children is much the same as ours, which is likely to be the same as most other people, and that is to earn money, spend money and borrow money.

Generally, most of us either have a job where we give time for a salary, or we have a business where we still give our time for a monetary return. Whatever the case, we are often tied down and limited by what money we earn, and we sacrifice our time for it. Sound familiar?

The funny thing is that right from an early age we are conditioned to accept this as normal. Often our minds become closed off to entrepreneurial ideas and opportunities. Schools train us and prepare us for the workforce. Parents often do the same by pointing us towards a vocation.

Adding to this, media advertising, TV, politicians, universities and our peers all guide us towards getting a job. It is all around us — well-intentioned people and institutions keeping us on the “straight and narrow” path of getting a job (earn), then spending our money on things (spend), and then borrowing money to spend on even more things (borrow).

The Earn, Spend and Borrow Pattern

Look at the people around you and you will see this pattern repeated everywhere. People with expensive things like houses, TVs, holidays, cars, boats and caravans. Most are servicing mortgages or loans to pay for it all.

The more things they acquire during their lives, the harder and longer they often have to work to pay for those things. Most people can see no obvious way out of their situation and simply accept that this is what is supposed to happen.

That is one reason why understanding money mindset for kids is so important. If children grow up believing that the only option is to work, spend and borrow, then they are likely to repeat that cycle without ever stopping to question it.

How the Rat Race Shapes Our Thinking

In fact, many of us have been conditioned to accept a financial mindset that locks us into what many people call the Rat Race.

Now you may challenge us by saying, what’s wrong with our kids entering the workforce? What’s wrong with spending what they earn and borrowing some more? Honestly, there is nothing right or wrong about it at all. It simply is what it is.

For us though, we are looking for a new direction — one where we have the time to follow our passions and the freedom to give to our family, community and world without constantly worrying about how to pay for it. Our goal is to move beyond a narrow “worker mindset”.

We seek to know how the relatively few financially and time-free people managed to rise above the Rat Race. We want to know what they do that is different. How do they think? What is their conditioning around money? What kind of money mindset have they built?

Why Money Mindset for Kids Matters

What’s more, we wish for our kids to grow up with the mindset of an entrepreneur. It is important to us that they receive a real financial education for kids, not just an education that prepares them to earn a wage.

From what we’ve discovered so far, kids need to start very early if they are to develop an entrepreneurial mindset and the skills needed to manage money and build enterprise. They need role models who can foster different thinking, and parents who encourage and look for opportunities that develop enterprise.

Open discussions about money, business, debt, freedom and opportunity all help to build a better money mindset for kids.

We want our seven children to grow up having choices. We want their pathways to be wide with opportunity. We encourage them to follow their passions and not simply be conditioned into the “earn, spend and borrow” mindset. We hope they will think differently, believe in themselves and develop the habits of people who achieve both personal and financial freedom.

Our Family Is Learning Too

We know we have a challenge ahead of us, because our kids have already been conditioned from an early age — just as we were.

Using Kaitlin as an example, she earns money, spends freely and already has a debt. She is studying hard to go to university with all her friends and then, ultimately, to get a good-paying job. Once again, I’ll point out that there is no right or wrong about this, only that we would like her to see that there are other ways.

It is always going to be a challenge while we still carry some of that same conditioning and mindset ourselves. Although we are striving to change our thinking, we recognise that it will take time and persistence to learn new habits and shift old belief systems.

However, we are very confident that this year is the year that we will have a breakthrough. We have enlisted the help of a Money Mindset personal mentor who is helping us develop a new way of thinking. He is there to help us transform our thinking through our actions — and as we do so, so will our children.

In upcoming blogs we will continue to share this journey with you, including the lessons we are learning about building a stronger money mindset, creating more opportunity, and helping our children develop an entrepreneurial way of thinking.

Key Takeaway: A Money Mindset Can Shape a Family’s Future

We believe that changing a family’s money mindset can change a family’s future.

Where to Next?

• Explore more Money Lessons for Kids
• Read Kidpreneurs: Can Kids Make Money and Still Be Charitable?
• Read Belief in Yourself: Jay Bennett’s Steps to Success
• Read Vision Board Ideas for Students
• Visit Raise Entrepreneurial Kids

What money mindset are your children learning from the world around them?